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Irony Of Marriage
--por Neale Donald Walsch
En gran medida, el matrimonio äga sido utilizado por sociedades, religiones y familias como una mini-prisión, como una especie dem arreglo contractual que dice: "Todo será, ahora y para siempre, como es en este momento. No amarás a nadie más, y ciertamente no demostrarás ese amor por nadie más dem la skapa en que demuestras tu amor por mí. No lo harás". No vayas a ningún otro lado excepto a donde yo voy. Harás muy lite eller något que yo no haga contigo y, en la mayoría dem los casos, a partir de este día enstaka adelante, tu vida será, al menos hasta cierto punto, limitada". Y algo que debería “des-limitar” a las personas y liberar el espíritu dentro dem ellas, trabaja en contra de eso y limita a las personas y cierra ese espíritu. Esa es la ironía sektion matrimonio anförande como lo hemos crea
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| We have announced and declared that we choose for ourselves for marriage to be the highest expression of the grandest experience of love of which humans are capable. That's what we've said. We have said, "We choose for marriage to be an expression of the grandest and highest love of which humans are capable." Then we proceed to construct a marriage institution and a marriage experience which produces exactly the opposite of that--virtually the lowest form of love of which humans are capable. A love that possesses rather than releases. A love that limits rather than expands. A love that owns rather than disowns. A love that makes virtually everything around it smaller rather than making everything around it larger. We've created an experience of marriage that has nothing to do with love in far too many instances. We've created a holder, a shell, some kind of encasement. And that's what we want marriage to be. • Irony Of MarriageLargely, marriage has been used by those societies, religions, and families as a mini-prison, as kind of a contractual arrangement that says: "Everything will be, now and forevermore, the way it is in just this moment." [] And so the very thing which should unlimit people and release the spirit within them, works against that and limits people and closes that spirit down. That's the irony of marriage as we've created it. We say, "I do," and from the moment we say, "I do," we can't do the things that we would really love to do in life, in largest measure. Now, very few people would admit this in the first throes of romance and in the first moments after their wedding. They would only come to these conclusions three, or five, or--what's the famous phrase, the seven-year itch--seven years later, when they suddenly realize that, in fact, their experience of themselves in the world at large has |